
On Monday while blueberry picking in our yard, I got a bite on my left index finger. It was itching yesterday and this morning I noticed a red trail going up my finger towards my hand. I knew a bite wasn't supposed to do that so I called my PCP. They were able to get me in for an appointment today. I had to take the kids with me and as we pulled into the parking lot my only instructions to them were to make sure to be good and quiet.
When we got into the doctors office with the nurse, one of the first things she said was, "Oh my! They are SO good! We never get kids this good in here anymore!"
Now, I think Marshall and Shaylen
are good kids, but I see both their good and bad points all day long. I thanked the Lord that they have chosen to obey today. They sat quietly in the office and looked at their books that they brought from the library. They didn't make a sound. I winked and smiled at them.
As the nurse took my weight (ugh), blood pressure and temperature, they sat quietly. She began to type in my medical history and again commented at how good the kids were. She said to me, "The kids that we see come in

here are
never this well behaved and their moms do nothing to stop them either!" She paused and told the kids, "You guys be sure to ask for a sticker on your way out!"
After the nurse left Marshall and Shaylen piped up with a dozen questions about the room, the equipment, the purple gloves, the tongue depressors, the cabinets and the neatly arranged cubicles with medical paraphernalia in them. When the door opened, it became silent again. The nurse must have said something to the doctor because when the doctor came in she said, "I hear there are two kiddos in here! Two
very good kids! Would you like a sticker?" She brought six stickers; three for each. The doctor looked over my medical history and the information that the nurse had put into the computer. After a minute or two she looked up at Marshall and Shaylen and emphatically said, "We never see kids like this in here anymore. This is just like the olden days!" (
Side note: We got a similar comment like this at the library earlier today!)

Now as Marshall and Shaylen's mommy, I want to be the first to admit they are NOT perfect children, there are
many things we are definitely working on. I am definitely NOT the perfect parent either. There are certainly things that I'm having to work on, too! The doctor's and nurse's comments got me to thinking however about how
popular child-rearing techniques are
touted as the latest, best and only way to raise children these days. If they are so wonderful and work so well, why is it so rare and shocking to have two children that obey in a doctor's office? Or for that matter a library, restaurant or grocery store?
I remember something Judy Endean said to me, "Everyone knows that kids disobey. What they are wanting to see is how you deal with that disobedience." So true. When we got out of the building I thanked the kids over and over for being so good. I told them how proud I was of them and how much they pleased the Lord!
While I know I have
a lot to still learn about parenting, I was reminded again today of why the Bible is still sufficient for all of life and godliness. I'm thankful that it is not out-dated and irrelevant.
It has and always will work.